First post! So, why am I working to reclaim our ancestors?
Many people doing genealogy research can easily find who they’re researching by taking a quick look at an index or thumbing through the pages for the names of the people the record belonged to. But for most of us that take up African American genealogy research, it’s usually not that simple. The names of our black ancestors, by and large, remain hidden in the archived succession records, wills, conveyance books and other old documents of towns across America. The evidence that they lived is locked away in the records of the people that enslaved them. But though our ancestors may have been enslaved in life, their memory doesn’t belong to the enslavers. They are our families and they belong to us. I want us to know them. To say their names and celebrate their lives.
These names are the first stitch that help to weave the tapestry of the lives that have been too long disregarded and forgotten as no more than a footnote to the American history written by others. And for us, our ancestors are the everyday heroes of the American black experience who deserve to be remembered and cherished by those of us who descend from and yearn to know them.
My research started as a scrapbook project for my Big Mama’s 80th birthday celebration. As I discovered more and more about the remarkable people in my maternal heritage, I knew I had to keep going. And now the continuing search has become a passion of mine. I rejoice each time I discover another thread to weave into the family tapestry. Most of what black people know of their family background comes from vague memories that evolve into myths which may or may not have much truth to them. We want so badly to know more about who and where we come from that we will accept any plausible story. But I have come to realize that the real history is always so much richer, and we owe it to our ancestors to get to their truth.
So I am hoping that by sharing my research experiences — the highs and the lows, the frustrations and breakthroughs — I will encourage and help others find the real stories in their own black past and reclaim their ancestors lives and experiences to help create a new collective narrative of black history that is as rich, and nuanced as their lives really were.
I am no expert, but I’ve learned a lot over my years of research and I’m happy to pass along my tips and tricks to the next intrepid family genealogist! Hope you enjoy the journey with me!
18 Comments
Susane Lavallais Boykins
Congratulations!!! Very well written. I agree with everything you said. Nice look.
admin
Thank you very much Susane!
Ellen Dauzat
Congratulations!!! It’s a tough journey to locate slave ancestors. I’m learning slowly.
Patricia Carmouche Sampson
Congratulations!!! Genealogy research can be very interesting, rewarding, and very frustrating (oh those BRICK WALKS) all at the same time!!! I welcome any tips and tricks that you may have to offer. Let’s break down those BRICK Walls!!!!
Pamela Word Wells
My mother was a Mayeaux. Was so glad to discover so much information through so many good people. I enjoy learning about my family. I pray you find all the pieces that make the puzzle. Blessings to you.
admin
Thanks so much for ready Ellen!
Joan Brundy Coubarous
Cousin Jessica,
Absolutely beautiful and well written. I will continue following you on my ancestral journey. With your help and others I know too that I will break my wall. You have done an outstanding job.
admin
Thank you for your kind words Joan! I’m so glad you plan to follow along!
Sherri
Thanks for sharing your journey with us. I can feel your passion for our people in your writing. Please keep me in mind for your next research project.
BEAUTIFUL ARTICLE 🥀
admin
Thank you Sherri! I’m happy to help you with your research. Feel free to send me a message!
Jennifer Littles GrahM
Love it
admin
Thank you Jennifer!
Athisha King
This is so needed!! Thank you so much for this💜
Darneasha C. Pickett
Congratulations!!! I enjoyed reading your first post. I will be checking back regularly.
Jeff
Fascinating and informative. Nice job!
Cristina
Loved the first post. Can’t wait for more.
Eve
Creating a family tapistry can be a life-time work. I enjoy reading your family discoveries, historical findings and stories. Thank you for sharing.
Jessica
Thank you Eve! I appreciate you reading!